On Thursday night we had our home stay visit. Our group of ten was divided into 3 small groups, each staying at a different home. Tracy, Cynthia, and I went to stay with Patricia and her daughter Elvia in South Tucson. Patricia works as a dishwasher at the Ritz Carlton Hotel in Tucson and Elvia is a junior in high school. We arrived at the house at just a few minutes past 6. We were met by Baby, the family dog, who looked intimidating but was very sweet. Elvia came outside to greet us and let us know that her mom was still at work, but would be home by 7:30. Patricia had already cooked for us, but we thought we'd wait to eat until she got home to eat, so we sat and talked to Elvia for awhile.
Elvia is a sweet girl. She is bilingual, loves Taylor Swift and hopes to be an oncologist. Her family first came to Arizona just after she was born. Her father was offered a job by an American company and came to Tucson on a work visa. Unfortunately, he wasn't able to bring Patricia, Elvia, or her two older brothers with him under the terms of the visa. Because of that, the rest of the family came to the United States illegally. Patricia came first, travelling over the border through an underground sewer in one of the border towns. She had to alternately crawl and walk through the underground tunnel and as she was traveling it began to rain and the sewer flooded. As the water got higher and higher she finally reached the storm drain where she was to exit. She pushed it open, was met by a man who gave her some dry clothes, changed, and walked away, beginning her life of trying to fit in. Elvia and her brothers were later brought into the country in a car by a documented relative when Elvia was one. As Elvia was telling the story of her crossing she mentioned the movie La Misma Luna (Under the Same Moon), in which a young child crosses the border to reunite with his mother in California after his grandmother who had been caring for him died unexpectedly. The boy crosses with an American student visiting Mexico by hiding in a storage box under the backseat of her van. You can see the video of the border crossing scene from La Misma Luna
here. I got the impression that her experience had been similar, although without the complication that arises in the film.
She told us a bit about her life growing up in Tucson. She learned English before Spanish; in fact she didn't begin learning Spanish until first grade, after some other Hispanic children had teased her for not knowing Spanish. She does well in school and really enjoys english and history class, but doesn't care much for geometry. As we talked, she got a call from her mom, telling us she'd been asked to stay late at the hotel and wouldn't be home until 8:30 or 9. At around the same time, two of Elvia's cousins from Nogales, Mexico stopped by. Elvia shared with us that her parents had recently separated and that her and her mother lived together in the house we were at, while her father and one brother lived in a separate house. Her father drinks a lot and has some anger issues, which eventually led to the separation. It has been hard on Elvia, as she's not only changed homes but schools (they moved 2 months ago, so the change of schools happened right in the middle of the school year), however she said that she is happier in her new location.
Eventually we decided to eat because Patricia kept getting delayed at work. Dinner was wonderful- beef mole with rice and beans and delicious corn tortillas. It was nice to have another sampling of Mexican cuisine after the carne asada lunch at the ranch the previous day. As we ate, Elvia talked to us a bit about her mother. In addition to working at the hotel, Patricia volunteers for Derechos Humanos (Human Rights, an organization that provides support for migrants) and a few other organizations. Her work at Derechos Humanos is particularly difficult, as her main task is helping families track down missing relatives. Ultimately, she ends up telling many of the families that the person they are searching for has either died, been deported, or is detained by border patrol and facing deportation. Obviously this work is very hard on her emotionally, but she feels that it is important work because she is often the only connection many of these families have to their missing relatives. We asked how Patricia gets to and from her jobs and volunteer work without documentation, without a license. Elvia said that she drives without a license, knowing that if she is stopped the police officer may contact border patrol if they find her without the proper documentation. Not all officers will do this, but they have the right to under state law.
The questions many people have when hearing stories like this is why do these people come to the United States if they face such hardship and uncertainty once here as undocumented residents and why don't they come here through legal channels? The answer to both of these questions is complex and I promised earlier that I would avoid the overt politics of immigration as much as possible, but in order to provide some context here are a few simple explanations.
Why do they come? Mexico and many other Latin American countries face extreme poverty. In many of these countries there is little or no middle class, citizens are either rich or poor. Imagine trying to raise a family and not having enough food for everyone, or not enough clothes. At the same time, a country like the United States has jobs available that most Americans are not willing to do- farm work, landscaping, cooking and cleaning. The sense of family and the duty to provide for them is very strong and the opportunities for work so clearly available across the border that it is an easy decision for many to cross, even knowing the risks involved. And make no mistake, they do understand that there are risks involved in crossing, from being arrested and deported if caught to dying during the journey through the desert.
Why don't they come through legal channels? Quite simply, the opportunities for legal immigration to the United States are much fewer than most of us realize. Sure, there are some opportunities for work visas, but these are so few compared to the demand, and I mean that from both sides of the border. There is a demand Latin Americans for these visas so that they can come here, but there is also the demand from the United States for the workers. The legal channels that are available for immigration are so limited, and so backlogged (10+ years in many cases), that if you are desperate enough, you simply don't feel you have the luxury to wait for such an opportunity to manifest itself.
That is the situation that Elvia and her family found themselves in 16 years ago, and they are still dealing with the ramifications. Her mother is undocumented and Elvia and her brothers are as well. Patricia has few options to achieve any type of recognized legal status under current U.S. law, however Elvia and her brothers have applied for Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) status. Under the DACA memo, signed by President Obama on June 15th, 2012, undocumented immigrants below the age of 31 who were brought to the United States before their 16th birthday and who have lived in the United States continuously for more than 5 years, can be granted a two year exemption from deportation, a work permit, and, in most states, eligibility for a driver's license. In Arizona, however, Governor Jan Brewer issued a counter-order stating that DACA recipients would not be allowed to obtain any state services, meaning that they would not be eligible for driver's licenses.
When Patricia finally arrived home from work, we had a few minutes to talk with her before she had to drive the two cousins to her ex-husband's house. She returned a few minutes later, clearly exhausted. We told her to go to bed and that we would chat in the morning. We also met the third member of the house, Hendrix, a student from Earlham College in Indiana who was staying with the family as part of a study abroad program. Hendrix was studying Hispanic issues in one of her courses and also working at a local farm.
The next morning, we had a few minutes to chat with Patricia as she cooked breakfast, before she took Elvia to school. She came back and we ate together, just as our van arrived to pick us up. We talked a little about her recent experience with moving and how it had affected the family. She said that Elvia had been really depressed and struggling in the old house and has been better since the move. Both her and Elvia have been seeing a therapist, and Hendrix, who's parents had also divorced had been a great help to Elvia.
The home stay experience was very valuable, as we got to see the human side of the immigration issue. It's easy to get swept up in the hysteria on one side or the other and forget that these, of course, are real people with real problems, many not so different than ours. Having a chance to talk with Elvia and Patricia, even for a short time, helped put this in perspective and I am very greatful for the hospitality they showed us for those few hours.